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Trust me from over here..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"You\u0026#39;ll find it again.  Trust me from over here on the other side of that mountain...it all rushes in when you least expect it to."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/7370614382534666358\/comments\/default\/3289704149151925504"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/7370614382534666358\/comments\/default\/3289704149151925504"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/look-at-tomato-isnt-it-sad-it-cant-sing.html?showComment=1281930485554#c3289704149151925504","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/look-at-tomato-isnt-it-sad-it-cant-sing.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-7370614382534666358","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/7370614382534666358","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-835160829"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"August 15, 2010 at 8:48 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-8430563530404274627"},"published":{"$t":"2010-06-29T14:11:14.423-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-06-29T14:11:14.423-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"I think sometimes too much of life gets in the way..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"I think sometimes too much of life gets in the way of our wants and dreams.  I know this from the perspective of being a writer.  I got close, but put it aside to help save an ailing marriage.  Getting it back is hard, but it\u0026#39;s worth trying, even if it does take extra years.  Here\u0026#39;s to you already knowing what you want to do and making it happen someday."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/7370614382534666358\/comments\/default\/8430563530404274627"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/7370614382534666358\/comments\/default\/8430563530404274627"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/look-at-tomato-isnt-it-sad-it-cant-sing.html?showComment=1277845874423#c8430563530404274627","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"marty mankins"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/04424325358409904371"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_r2ao2SPCEAQ\/Sf503nKqDKI\/AAAAAAAABKM\/tt8jV-2Y7pI\/S220\/marty-avatar-123108.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/look-at-tomato-isnt-it-sad-it-cant-sing.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-7370614382534666358","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/7370614382534666358","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1463059094"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 29, 2010 at 2:11 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-2775964286296373596"},"published":{"$t":"2010-06-23T11:46:55.272-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-06-23T11:46:55.272-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"I understand. 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Holding on with a death grip."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Love you too. Holding on with a death grip."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5144448659890468103\/comments\/default\/5245888079894539069"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5144448659890468103\/comments\/default\/5245888079894539069"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/letting-go-for-3283372nd-timeand.html?showComment=1276236110429#c5245888079894539069","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/letting-go-for-3283372nd-timeand.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5144448659890468103","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/5144448659890468103","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 10, 2010 at 11:01 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3708159339942247535"},"published":{"$t":"2010-06-10T18:07:02.388-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-06-10T18:07:02.388-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Sad times, happy times, pain, delight - rough stuf..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Sad times, happy times, pain, delight - rough stuff. Hang on tight. We love you. Just noticed I\u0026#39;m a poet and my feet show it :-)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5144448659890468103\/comments\/default\/3708159339942247535"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5144448659890468103\/comments\/default\/3708159339942247535"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/letting-go-for-3283372nd-timeand.html?showComment=1276218422388#c3708159339942247535","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/08580306997220110333"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/06\/letting-go-for-3283372nd-timeand.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5144448659890468103","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/5144448659890468103","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1440059649"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"June 10, 2010 at 6:07 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-2506142390243306732"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-27T16:35:16.327-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-27T16:35:16.327-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Oooo that\u0026#39;s a good one! 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Thank you :)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5094936208180112662\/comments\/default\/2506142390243306732"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5094936208180112662\/comments\/default\/2506142390243306732"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/front-lines.html?showComment=1275003316327#c2506142390243306732","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/front-lines.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5094936208180112662","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/5094936208180112662","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 27, 2010 at 4:35 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-8076545200459308089"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-27T08:00:22.906-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-27T08:00:22.906-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Are you comparing HIM to every other man you\u0026#39;v..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Are you comparing HIM to every other man you\u0026#39;ve had a relationship with? I doubt it. And I doubt he\u0026#39;s doing it either. So knock it off.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAdd an affirmation to your list: You are good enough, worthy of love, flaws and all."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5094936208180112662\/comments\/default\/8076545200459308089"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/5094936208180112662\/comments\/default\/8076545200459308089"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/front-lines.html?showComment=1274972422906#c8076545200459308089","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Megan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15049341972075281915"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"29","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/i78.photobucket.com\/albums\/j89\/grrlathr\/Celtic-Heart.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/front-lines.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5094936208180112662","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/5094936208180112662","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2049115101"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 27, 2010 at 8:00 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-192967801509362068"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-20T08:30:38.578-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-20T08:30:38.578-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"One of things you mentioned above \u0026quot;great rela..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"One of things you mentioned above \u0026quot;great relationship with your ex\u0026quot; is one of those things that, IMO, is pretty rare.  At least in my many conversations with others.  It took me several years before my ex and I could communicate properly without injecting bullshit (usually about money) into all of our conversations.  The last few years have been nice since we are civil and can actually discuss our past without her blaming me for cutting short our future together and without me telling her to move past it all."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/192967801509362068"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/192967801509362068"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1274369438578#c192967801509362068","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"marty mankins"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/04424325358409904371"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_r2ao2SPCEAQ\/Sf503nKqDKI\/AAAAAAAABKM\/tt8jV-2Y7pI\/S220\/marty-avatar-123108.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1463059094"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 20, 2010 at 8:30 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5240933842640722231"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-20T08:27:41.069-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-20T08:27:41.069-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Sometimes life is not fair.  I\u0026#39;ve told myself ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Sometimes life is not fair.  I\u0026#39;ve told myself that.  I\u0026#39;ve told my ex-wife that.  And I\u0026#39;ve told my daughter that.  You are right that it\u0026#39;s a word that maybe should be replaced or forgotten, since it\u0026#39;s kind of a cop-out in many ways.  Over the last few years, I\u0026#39;ve not remembered too many times I\u0026#39;ve used it.  I\u0026#39;ve been trying to be more honest and encouraging, telling myself and others to do their best to overcome obstacles in life rather than focus on just accepting the facts."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/5240933842640722231"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/5240933842640722231"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html?showComment=1274369261069#c5240933842640722231","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"marty mankins"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/04424325358409904371"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_r2ao2SPCEAQ\/Sf503nKqDKI\/AAAAAAAABKM\/tt8jV-2Y7pI\/S220\/marty-avatar-123108.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-4762484697998222537","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/4762484697998222537","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1463059094"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 20, 2010 at 8:27 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3468928207193771388"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-17T21:21:25.632-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-17T21:21:25.632-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"To this day, I struggle not to use that \u0026quot;f\u0026qu..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"To this day, I struggle not to use that \u0026quot;f\u0026quot; word.  Fairness is the last of the bad emotions hanging on with regard to my divorce and wow, it\u0026#39;s a toughie to shake."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/3468928207193771388"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/3468928207193771388"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html?showComment=1274156485632#c3468928207193771388","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/blank.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-4762484697998222537","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/4762484697998222537","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-835160829"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 17, 2010 at 9:21 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-6376991191094887166"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-14T19:59:24.238-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-14T19:59:24.238-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"As one from a generation beyond yours, I can\u0026#39;t..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"As one from a generation beyond yours, I can\u0026#39;t begin to promise that continuing to be the \u0026quot;fair\u0026quot; one will eventually lead to fairness...it\u0026#39;s about who you want to be Lovey...in my mind, that\u0026#39;s the (only true) payoff."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/6376991191094887166"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/4762484697998222537\/comments\/default\/6376991191094887166"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html?showComment=1273892364238#c6376991191094887166","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Anonymous"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/08580306997220110333"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/f.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-4762484697998222537","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/4762484697998222537","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1440059649"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 14, 2010 at 7:59 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5260837040469512893"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-13T18:10:41.348-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-13T18:10:41.348-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"CP, thank you so much. As soon as they give me a f..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"CP, thank you so much. As soon as they give me a flippin\u0026#39; address I\u0026#39;ll be sending the letters I\u0026#39;ve written. Nothing too guilt-ridden, but many \u0026quot;I Love You\u0026#39;s\u0026quot;. MANY many of them :)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/5260837040469512893"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/5260837040469512893"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273799441348#c5260837040469512893","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 13, 2010 at 6:10 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-2522636438314514952"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-13T04:31:45.296-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-13T04:31:45.296-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Stumbled over here from Jester\u0026#39;s page. What a ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Stumbled over here from Jester\u0026#39;s page. What a moving tribute to a mother\u0026#39;s love for her son.  I pray that he has a safe journey and comes home when his time is through to your loving arms once more.  \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EMy first born just had her first baby.  Now SHE knows nothing...and I\u0026#39;m right there with her, completely clueless on how to be a grandmother.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EWe all find our way eventually.  Good luck and God bless."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/2522636438314514952"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/2522636438314514952"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273750305296#c2522636438314514952","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"CP"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/08266202135270130146"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"25","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/i5.photobucket.com\/albums\/y194\/cherbaby\/CPPrincess.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-607092657"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 13, 2010 at 4:31 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-8259777682748015264"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-12T18:04:30.033-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-12T18:04:30.033-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"LOL!  Oh those were the days eh?"},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"LOL!  Oh those were the days eh?"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/8259777682748015264"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/8259777682748015264"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html?showComment=1273712670033#c8259777682748015264","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Alaena"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/07309553152787812173"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_sr_H8M2eQkg\/SuF6Qgw3oAI\/AAAAAAAAAhA\/ihOV14Kdzm4\/S220\/crazy.png"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3261421919915268625","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/3261421919915268625","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-847100519"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 12, 2010 at 6:04 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-425403690222299566"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-12T17:00:10.672-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-12T17:00:10.672-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Wow thanks! I may not be shit at putting silk flow..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Wow thanks! I may not be shit at putting silk flowers and glitter on picture frames, but I can make people crack a smile! :)"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/425403690222299566"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/425403690222299566"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html?showComment=1273708810672#c425403690222299566","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3261421919915268625","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/3261421919915268625","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 12, 2010 at 5:00 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5427811488735791526"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-12T16:47:25.653-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-12T16:47:25.653-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Holy Monkeys!  What a cool picture!  Thanks for pl..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Holy Monkeys!  What a cool picture!  Thanks for playin\u0026#39;!  And yeah, we need more fun... you\u0026#39;re a very funny writer girl!"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/5427811488735791526"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/3261421919915268625\/comments\/default\/5427811488735791526"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html?showComment=1273708045653#c5427811488735791526","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Alaena"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/07309553152787812173"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_sr_H8M2eQkg\/SuF6Qgw3oAI\/AAAAAAAAAhA\/ihOV14Kdzm4\/S220\/crazy.png"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/photo-phiasco-alternately-titled-ive.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3261421919915268625","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/3261421919915268625","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-847100519"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 12, 2010 at 4:47 PM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5578795601740464886"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-11T08:37:35.760-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-11T08:37:35.760-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Yeah, I knew everything back when I was 18. Now, n..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Yeah, I knew everything back when I was 18. Now, not so much. Prayers for your boy. I know I got a lot from my service days."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/5578795601740464886"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/5578795601740464886"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273592255760#c5578795601740464886","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Karl"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/11542765697490155242"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-xABCqYBT1dM\/XJac40S9UEI\/AAAAAAAAgz4\/a-8mQOHYWy07Ml4qlj8GLlAXHFB4ZojNwCK4BGAYYCw\/s113\/KARL%2BLITTLE%2BWRITER.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-160337451"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 11, 2010 at 8:37 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-6075100281666705365"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-10T10:03:30.361-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-10T10:03:30.361-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"I\u0026#39;m hoping he will be safe.  A parents wish fo..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"I\u0026#39;m hoping he will be safe.  A parents wish for a departing child."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/6075100281666705365"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/6075100281666705365"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273511010361#c6075100281666705365","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"marty mankins"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/04424325358409904371"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_r2ao2SPCEAQ\/Sf503nKqDKI\/AAAAAAAABKM\/tt8jV-2Y7pI\/S220\/marty-avatar-123108.jpg"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1463059094"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 10, 2010 at 10:03 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-3144132091451860016"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-10T09:48:20.714-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-10T09:48:20.714-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Ten years? 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I think I will..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/3144132091451860016"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/3144132091451860016"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273510100714#c3144132091451860016","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 10, 2010 at 9:48 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-8028580877354199656"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-10T08:45:32.596-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-10T08:45:32.596-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Wow, little Mike a Marine.  Be very very proud.  Y..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Wow, little Mike a Marine.  Be very very proud.  You sent them a boy and they will make him a man. I have a lump in my throat for pride in him.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThings will work out with him.  He just needs some time to process what\u0026#39;s happened.  I know that you have done what you could to protect your kiddos from the hurt, but our kids still continue to be the unsung victims of divorce.  My kids still don\u0026#39;t \u0026quot;get it\u0026quot; and it\u0026#39;s been over ten years since mine.  All we can do is talk to them and provide a safe place to land.  He knows you\u0026#39;re there, and will come to you when he\u0026#39;s ready.  I promise.  \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EMy fave book by the way, brings tears to my eyes everytime I read it."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/8028580877354199656"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/122732532243222398\/comments\/default\/8028580877354199656"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html?showComment=1273506332596#c8028580877354199656","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Alaena"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/07309553152787812173"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_sr_H8M2eQkg\/SuF6Qgw3oAI\/AAAAAAAAAhA\/ihOV14Kdzm4\/S220\/crazy.png"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/pain-is-weakness-leaving-body.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-122732532243222398","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/122732532243222398","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-847100519"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 10, 2010 at 8:45 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-4092498570560989474"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-06T10:36:09.561-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-06T10:36:09.561-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Shiny, you made me cry. In a happy way! \n\nThe shoc..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Shiny, you made me cry. In a happy way! \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThe shock and pain of those who up and left me (and who they turned out to be) sometimes takes my entire brain and I need to stop and realize there are those who are quietly standing by me, loving me just as I am. \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EAnd I wish we could have a party. All of us! \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI tell you what, it sure has made it clear what kind of friend I want to be. And what kind of friend I will never be."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/4092498570560989474"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/4092498570560989474"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1273167369561#c4092498570560989474","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"30SomethingandCrazy"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14297613277753120885"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"16","height":"16","src":"https:\/\/img1.blogblog.com\/img\/b16-rounded.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-288982041"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 6, 2010 at 10:36 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-2801480258228737809"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-06T09:50:21.862-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-06T09:50:21.862-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"What!  Not liking Ladyhawke?!?  Although I admit, ..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"What!  Not liking Ladyhawke?!?  Although I admit, it\u0026#39;s got some funkadelic music... but great story!  :D \u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EI agree with all the rest though... friends love you no matter where you\u0026#39;re at, and it seems to me that there are a lot of people who support and love T, warts and all. What\u0026#39;s that saying.... \u0026quot;A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked\u0026quot;!\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EThank goodness for that!"},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/2801480258228737809"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/2801480258228737809"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1273164621862#c2801480258228737809","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Alaena"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/07309553152787812173"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"32","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_sr_H8M2eQkg\/SuF6Qgw3oAI\/AAAAAAAAAhA\/ihOV14Kdzm4\/S220\/crazy.png"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-847100519"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 6, 2010 at 9:50 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-5967431924386138019"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-06T09:02:11.134-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-06T09:02:11.134-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Can I make an observation?\n\nQuite a bit of your \u0026q..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Can I make an observation?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EQuite a bit of your \u0026quot;five years into the future\u0026quot; fantasy of yours focuses on the notion that people like you and love you for who you are, what you do, what you look like, etc.  Yes -- there are wonderful goals waiting: heading towards a career, a musical hobby, a healthy relationship with a partner and with yourself. Those are all quite nice, and I\u0026#39;m certain that you\u0026#39;re on your way.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003EIt\u0026#39;s very challenging, however, to realize that there are lots of people out there who think the world of you -- whether you\u0026#39;re Tracy, Super-E.R. Nurse or Tracy, woman who is going through some major repairs right now. \u0026quot;How could someone possibly love me if I\u0026#39;m not yet that perfect version of me that\u0026#39;s a few years off?\u0026quot;  Believe me -- I\u0026#39;ve been there. Still there at times. But it\u0026#39;s important to know that your true friends are around not because of future Tracy, but rather because they like present-day Tracy. I should know; I\u0026#39;m one of them. :)\u003Cbr \/\u003E\u003Cbr \/\u003E... although I really wasn\u0026#39;t such a huge fan of Ladyhawke, sorry..."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/5967431924386138019"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/5967431924386138019"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1273161731134#c5967431924386138019","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"shiny"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/14696896788233986063"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"24","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_aOJt2LUc1Mc\/S5omaecb3kI\/AAAAAAAAAIo\/dAxeMYhSme4\/S220\/2009-11-21+(7).JPG"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-1847781983"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 6, 2010 at 9:02 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-2854209099322865559"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-06T07:55:06.281-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-06T07:55:06.281-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Don\u0026#39;t accept that it won\u0026#39;t happen. Make it..."},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"Don\u0026#39;t accept that it won\u0026#39;t happen. Make it happen. Go for it. You can do it."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/2854209099322865559"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/2854209099322865559"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1273157706281#c2854209099322865559","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Megan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15049341972075281915"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"29","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/i78.photobucket.com\/albums\/j89\/grrlathr\/Celtic-Heart.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2049115101"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 6, 2010 at 7:55 AM"}]},{"id":{"$t":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-795259692435420585"},"published":{"$t":"2010-05-06T07:54:22.195-07:00"},"updated":{"$t":"2010-05-06T07:54:22.195-07:00"},"title":{"type":"text","$t":""},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"This comment has been removed by the author."},"link":[{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/795259692435420585"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/feeds\/6338912542846920688\/975810955897843167\/comments\/default\/795259692435420585"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html?showComment=1273157662195#c795259692435420585","title":""}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"Megan"},"uri":{"$t":"https:\/\/www.blogger.com\/profile\/15049341972075281915"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"29","height":"32","src":"http:\/\/i78.photobucket.com\/albums\/j89\/grrlathr\/Celtic-Heart.gif"}}],"thr$in-reply-to":{"xmlns$thr":"http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0","href":"http:\/\/30somethingandcrazy2.blogspot.com\/2010\/05\/fleshing-it-out.html","ref":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6338912542846920688.post-975810955897843167","source":"http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6338912542846920688/posts/default/975810955897843167","type":"text/html"},"gd$extendedProperty":[{"name":"blogger.contentRemoved","value":"true"},{"name":"blogger.itemClass","value":"pid-2049115101"},{"name":"blogger.displayTime","value":"May 6, 2010 at 7:54 AM"}]}]}});